Friday, July 18, 2008
{ 12:30 AM }
hello guys, was looking thru the net and i found smth quite useful..just wanna share it with all of you out there..
How to be a good mate
Like any relationship you need to put effort in to keep a friendship going. Follow TheSite's ten top tips to keeping your mates and you'll never be lonely again:
- Like yourself: How can others be expected to like you if you don't like yourself? It's no fun hanging out with miserable sods. Repeat the mantra - bah forget it.
- Choose well: Don't overstretch yourself, while it's great to have loads of people you know and like, it's better to have a select few that you spend more time with.
- Make time for each other: Don't abandon your mates at the first sign of lust, they're the ones you'll run to if it all goes wrong, and if you've vanished off the planet for a few months previous to this they may not want to pick up the pieces. If you are on the receiving end of this, tell your mate directly, as subtle hints tend not to work.
- Treat them as you wish to be treated: Obvious? You'd think so, but most people fail on this one.
- Make them feel wanted: Just like with lovers, where you may give surprise gifts, special dates and candle-lit meals, making your friend feel special can help make your bond stronger...and you may get gifts in return!
- Speak: It is better to bring up problems before you get to the point of a massive row, but either way make sure you do discuss them rationally and apologise for being an idiot if necessary. Then let it lie and move on.
- Listen: This is a two-way thing, don't expect them to continually help you out with your dilemmas and then have no interest in helping with theirs.
- Trust and loyalty: These are essential to close friendships. You don't have to share everything, but if you do, make sure you don't blab to everyone else. How would you feel if they did the same?
- Support them: If you want them to 'be there for you' you'll have to be there too.
- Admit when it's over: If you bore each other and it's a chore to spend time together, then call it a day.
Tuesday, July 08, 2008
{ 12:27 AM }

This post is dedicated to a special friend who has now moved to another place.
A special friend whom i have made from the youth choir. We share the same passion, share the same faith. Thru Fate, God has brought us together. Now, he has brought you back to where you belong.
I couldn't believe that person i saw in the news was you. I thought i was seeing things, but after confirmation, it was you , Levin
Angsana.
I cannot stop crying ever since that day the accident happened.
I know whatever i do now, you cannot never be back again..
When the news came out, i would be high hopes that you would be able to survive and probably got rescued to a safe place.
but i was wrong..
I'm sorry that i did not go and send you off.
I know if i'll be going, i'm definitely gonna break down in tears and cry.
the only thing that i can do now,
is to pray for your soul to rest in peace.
I promise that i will remember you in my prayers and i promise that i will remember forever.